EP229: Are You Giving Your Employees What They Need?
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Most leaders, when asked, will say they deeply care about their people. And I believe them. But here's what I've been sitting with lately — and what prompted this episode: there is a gap. A gap between caring about your people and actually showing up in a way they can feel that care.
That gap? It's costing you more than you think.
The Stories That Brought This to the Surface
Two conversations in one week pushed this topic to the top of my list.
The first was with a colleague who recently stepped into a new role at a new organization. As he's been meeting with people across his department — not just direct reports, but their direct reports too — he's uncovering some striking disconnections. One individual contributor had been with the organization for over two years and had never met her boss in person — even though they live in the same city. Another team had members who'd worked together for six years, and one didn't even know the other was a grandmother. My colleague found that out in the first ten minutes.
When connection is this absent, knowing what people actually need is probably absent too.
The second conversation was with someone from a different organization entirely — one with great culture and morale, but an industry with real resource constraints. The care is there; the capacity to act on it is stretched.
Two very different situations. Same underlying question: Are you really giving your employees what they need?
What "Investing in People" Actually Means
When we talk about investing in people, most leaders immediately think: training budget, development plans, headcount. And yes — those things matter enormously. But they're not the whole picture. And if resources are tight, the eye-rolls come out fast.
Here's what I want you to consider: investing in people doesn't always require a big budget or large blocks of time. It requires something that costs nothing but intention.
It's the daily, relational investment.
It's knowing what someone is working toward — professionally and personally. It's noticing when someone seems off and actually saying something. It's creating space for people to grow into, not just perform within. It's treating people as whole humans, not job titles with outputs.
Some things we call "investment" can actually send the opposite message when they're not genuine — occasional recognition without consistent presence, annual reviews as the only development conversation, a pool table in the break room without psychological safety to go with it. Those things fall flat without the relational foundation beneath them.
The Real Barriers (And Yes, They're Real)
I'm not here to judge. I know there are genuine obstacles leaders face — and I've faced them myself.
Time and pace. When everything is urgent and you're constantly putting out fires, people start to feel like tasks. They become items on the to-do list rather than humans to invest in.
Assumptions. They seem fine. They would tell me if something was wrong. It's easier to accept the surface answer and move on. But that's not investment — that's avoidance.
Discomfort with the relational side. For some leaders, results and analytics are their natural habitat. The human, relational side of leadership doesn't come as naturally. But being a leader goes beyond the task — it is about people. That's growth work you can do.
Learned patterns. If you were never invested in as an employee, if the leaders who modeled leadership for you kept it purely transactional — of course it's harder to do differently. But it's not impossible.
I coached a leader who genuinely cared about his team. His door was always closed. He stuck to work questions only. He never asked personal questions or initiated team connection. His team gave him flat, surface-level answers and he couldn't figure out why. Through our work together, we discovered he held a deep belief that work and personal life should never mix — and it was quietly overriding his values around relationships. We did the reprogramming. He found a different path. You can too.
What Humans Actually Need
I've talked about this on the podcast before, and I'll keep talking about it — because it matters that much.
There are four things I believe humans need most, and this is true of your team and of you:
To be seen. Not just for performance — but as a whole human. What they're carrying. What really matters to them.
To be heard. Their ideas, their concerns, their input. To know they can actually influence something.
To know they're growing. Even small signals of forward motion matter. It tells people they have a future here, that their development counts.
To be trusted. To know you've got their back when things get uncertain or hard — that you're not going to leave them exposed.
These four needs show up differently for different people. But they're almost universally present. And they're not being met by perks alone.
What You Can Do Right Now
You don't need a new program. You need intention and a few small, consistent shifts.
Start with psychological safety. Create the environment where people feel safe to make mistakes, share ideas, and raise concerns. Everything else builds from there.
Get to know your team as individuals. Everyone is wired differently. Make observations. Ask questions. Use tools like Insights Discovery if you have access. Then adapt — even 1% shifts in how you communicate make a difference.
Make your check-ins an actual check-in. Skip "How are things going?" / "Fine." Try questions like "What's something you're working through right now?" Then ask at least five questions deep. Real curiosity creates real connection.
Have at least one growth conversation per person per month or quarter. Not a review — just a genuine "What do you want more of, and how can I help?" You can do this on the floor, in five minutes, whenever you find the opening.
Close the loop. When someone raises something and you say you'll follow up — follow up. Every time you don't, trust quietly erodes. Every time you do, it builds.
And please — don't do any of this from a fake place. People will know. This isn't a checklist; it's a relationship. If you're finding yourself resistant, that's worth exploring. Why are you in a leadership role? What does it mean to you to lead people?
Leadership Is Human
The leaders people remember — the ones people want to follow — aren't the ones with the most impressive numbers. They're the ones who made their people feel like they mattered.
So: Are you giving your employees what they need?
Start by asking them. Mean it. And then decide what you can do from there.
That's the investment. That's the magic.
What Do You Think?
How can you understand what your employees really need?
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