EP199: Where the Magic Begins: Self-Awareness as Your Foundation
A STRONG FOUNDATION…
…is important when things get tough.
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When you’re building anything that lasts—a home, a career, a life—it begins with the foundation. In leadership (and really in humanness), that foundation is self-awareness. It’s the pixie dust that makes everything else work. Skills matter, of course, but they’re the “rooms and walls.” Self-awareness is the concrete they stand on.
Skills help you perform. Self-awareness helps you transform.
You can stack up communication tips, delegation frameworks, and time management hacks. But if you don’t know who you are, why you lead, and what drives you, those skills don’t have a stable place to land. Self-awareness is what keeps you grounded, flexible, and resilient—so you bounce instead of break.
This connects directly to my Leadership Magic framework—Character, Confidence, and Connection—all resting on that inner foundation.
The five pillars of a strong foundation
Think of self-awareness like layers of a house foundation (or pillars). Here are the big five:
Who you are
Your natural preferences, tendencies, strengths, and blind spots—plus the experiences that shaped you.Your values
The handful (two or three!) that truly guide your choices and reveal your triggers.Your why
The anchor that keeps you rooted in purpose when things get chaotic.Your future self
The blueprint—who you’re becoming, what you’re building, and where you’re headed.Your brain & beliefs
The wiring. Helpful thoughts keep energy flowing; unhelpful patterns (imposter syndrome, perfectionism, people-pleasing) short-circuit progress.
Pause and ask: Which pillar feels strongest right now? Which one needs reinforcement?
Expect cracks (and use them)
Even the best foundations show cracks over time—weather, stress, and use do their thing. In leadership, those cracks look like burnout, miscommunication, fear of feedback, or noisy inner chatter. They’re not failure; they’re invitations to strengthen the structure. Don’t cover the crack with a rug—get curious, look underneath, and repair at the root.
Walt Disney faced bankruptcy, rejection, and loss—and returned to his core beliefs around imagination, storytelling, and optimism. Mary Poppins reminds people of their own perspective and potential. Oprah teaches that knowing who you are and what you want is the greatest lesson. Same message, different voices: Return to your foundation.
Don’t stand alone—add support beams
Even strong foundations rely on support beams: peers, mentors, friends, or a coach. Community helps distribute the load when things feel heavy and reveals blind spots we can’t see by ourselves.
What Do You Think?
What foundation are you standing on? What can you do today to make it stronger?
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